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My Melanie
« on: March 27, 2018, 06:54:31 pm »
Late last night my Beloved Melanie's battles came to an end.  Through all the years of suffering, she was a trooper.  A fighter.  A spirit that I looked up to.  She gave me strength and purpose.

We have enjoyed almost 49 years together as husband and wife, but most of all, I treasure the last 12 years.  That is because, in January 2006, we were told she only had 6 months to live.  I hoped they were wrong.  She proved they were wrong. 

With Strength, Faith and Resolve, she fought.  She didn't complain.  She never thought of herself as sick.  She was always more concerned with my health and the well-being of our family, putting her own frailties and needs out of mind.  She continued to do as much within the household as possible.  It was her desire.  She had said that if she ever sat down and quit trying, she was doomed.

In the last week, she needed full assistance and support to move around the house, due to having slipped off the bed, breaking her foot and nose.  She could only walk using a cane and household items or my hand for support, but yesterday morning, she grabbed her oxygen cart and her cane and began moving about the house. 

I know she was in pain and struggling, but her Faith gave her strength.  Her Faith gave me strength and led me to Christ.  Now, she is with Him as her reward.

Funeral arrangements by:

Tim Stewart Funeral Home
300 Simonton Rd SW,
 Lawrenceville, GA 30046

Viewing Friday, March 30, 5 PM to 8 PM

Services:

Sharon Baptist Church
1059 Dee Kennedy Rd,
Auburn, GA 30011

March 31, 1 PM

Internment:

White Chapel Memorial Gardens
1832 Pleasant Hill Rd,
Duluth, GA 30096
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Re: My Melanie
« Reply #1 on: March 27, 2018, 07:02:19 pm »
My condolences.

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« Reply #2 on: March 27, 2018, 07:12:46 pm »

Prayers and thoughts with you and her.

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Re: My Melanie
« Reply #3 on: March 27, 2018, 08:04:19 pm »
My deepest condolences Charlie

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« Reply #4 on: March 27, 2018, 08:24:36 pm »
I'm still trying to come to terms with this.

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« Reply #5 on: March 27, 2018, 08:36:36 pm »
Do You Need Pall Bearers ?
I'm On The Right Track Baby !!!!
I WAS BORN THIS WAY !!!!

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« Reply #6 on: March 27, 2018, 08:51:09 pm »
I don't know what to say, plus it's hard to type through the tears...
Peace be with you, Charlie.

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« Reply #7 on: March 27, 2018, 08:59:10 pm »
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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« Reply #8 on: March 27, 2018, 08:59:57 pm »
Hey, Sarge!  I was starting to get worried about you.

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« Reply #9 on: March 27, 2018, 09:12:21 pm »
As always, y'all are in my prayers. I send my condolences to all who know and love her.
I've been following Melissa's posts on FB. Please give her a hug for me. 
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Re: My Melanie
« Reply #10 on: March 27, 2018, 09:13:29 pm »
Do You Need Pall Bearers ?

Yes.  I have 3 so far.
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2.    The few who learn by observation.
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Re: My Melanie
« Reply #11 on: March 27, 2018, 09:25:03 pm »
Charlie, when I spoke to you on the phone earlier I knew something was wrong even  before you told me the terrible news. The grief you are experiencing obviously came through in your voice. I'm not a highly emotional person but I had to step away for a few minutes and collect myself after talking to you.

Mel was blessed that she had you to stand by her side through every moment of her illness. You are an example to all of us.
My condolences.

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« Reply #12 on: March 27, 2018, 09:43:22 pm »
Melanie's smile was the highlight of every club party or picnic that she attended. She will be missed.
I would be honored to serve as a pall bearer.
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« Reply #13 on: March 27, 2018, 11:42:51 pm »
my condolences Charlie to you and your family.
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« Reply #14 on: March 28, 2018, 01:40:46 am »
Charlie;
You and your family are in our thoughts and we send our heartfelt sympathy to all of you.
We are so sorry for your loss;
Harry and Karin
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